Thesis (PhD (Social Work))—University of Stellenbosch, 2005. / It is generally accepted that the inability to consummate a marriage causes
couples great distress, and can finally lead to divorce. Limited research has been
done on the unconsummated marriage in South Africa. International studies have
pointed out that the unconsummated marriage is a reality and a prevalent
problem. While medical and therapeutic intervention is available, many people
still suffer in silence and feel embarrassed about their condition.
The purpose of this study was to gain a better understanding of the emotional
and psycho-social experiences and perceptions of the couple in an
unconsummated marriage. In order to achieve this goal, the objectives of the
study were to explore the experiences of the couple in an unconsummated
marriage in order to obtain the couple’s perception of their marriage; to present a
literature overview on the subject of marriage within the context of the family life
cycle; to describe the nature and causes of an unconsummated marriage; to
critically describe approaches and models that may be used for the assessment
of an unconsummated marriage; and to reflect on the implications of the
emotional and psycho-social experiences and perceptions of the couple in an
unconsummated marriage within a postmodern systemic framework.
The purpose of the literature study was to provide a context for the research
study. The researcher conducted an extensive literature review in order to
establish and refine the research subject and to guide the empirical study. An
exploratory study was executed and the purposive non-probability sampling
method utilised. The sample for this study was obtained from Intercare Medical
Centre, Johannesburg and The Square Medical Centre, Umhlanga between April
2004 and November 2004. Ten couples that have not consummated their
marriage were included in the sample. An interview schedule with open-ended
questions was used to conduct joint interviews with the couples.
The empirical study enabled the researcher to draw certain conclusions. The
main conclusion was that males and females in an unconsummated marriage
experience and perceive control-related problems; negative feelings towards their own and their partner’s body; a fear of engaging in an intimate relationship
and other phobias; a feeling of sin and moral dilemma; feelings of guilt and
shame; the manifestation of depression and apathetic attitudes; personal distress
and psychological problems; a feeling of serious regret and sadness; self-blame,
self-destructive behaviour, mutilation and suicidal thoughts and episodes; and
lastly, a lack of information on how to be sexually intimate with a partner.
A number of recommendations flowed from the findings. The main
recommendation was that healthcare professionals such as social workers
should be better educated about the phenomenon of the unconsummated
marriage in order to make a correct diagnosis and deliver high quality medical
and therapeutic intervention.
| Identifer | oai:union.ndltd.org:netd.ac.za/oai:union.ndltd.org:sun/oai:scholar.sun.ac.za:10019.1/1097 |
| Date | 12 1900 |
| Creators | Robinson, Tanya Marie |
| Contributors | Green, Sulina, University of Stellenbosch. Faculty of Arts and Social Sciences. Dept. of Social Work. |
| Publisher | Stellenbosch : University of Stellenbosch |
| Source Sets | South African National ETD Portal |
| Language | en_ZA |
| Detected Language | English |
| Type | Thesis |
| Rights | University of Stellenbosch |
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