This study examined the marriage experiences of four Chinese Canadian women who are
married to Caucasian husbands in Canada. Employing a phenomenological qualitative
approach, in - depth interviews were conducted with these women in the ethnically
diverse city of Vancouver, exploring their lived experiences in these relationships.
The findings in this study reflect upon this and tries to bring some understanding to this
rather complex phenomenon. The first finding is the non - accidental nature in who we
choose to bring into our world. This important element was highlighted in the findings as
it speaks to the reasons why we seek certain people to be in our life, including our
spouses. The women in this study all spoke about early influences and experiences
which reflected a sense of being an outsider in their own world at some point. These
experiences have in one form or another shaped how these women approached
relationships and in particular marriage. The second finding speaks to the effortlessness
which these women present when moving between their Chinese and Canadian culture.
The skills of negotiating and interpreting were highlighted by one of the women as a role
that she has grown up with but now also finds useful in her marriage. This role appears
almost invisible to most people because of the way these women incorporate it into their
day to day living. The last major finding is the importance of seeking a balance between
the two cultures in intermarriage. In doing so, it allowed the women in this study to find
a safe place for them to freely express the two sided nature of their culture which up until
then remained separated. In some cases it also provided the impetus to revisit their
culture of origin to rework another understanding of the role of Chinese culture in their
lives.
The findings of this study provide a beginning understanding into the work which these
four women negotiated in intermarriage to achieve a balance between the Canadian and
Chinese cultures in which they live. The findings from this study bridge a gap in the
understanding of the phenomenon of interracial relationships in Canada and contribute to
a broader cross cultural practice in social work and family therapy. / Arts, Faculty of / Social Work, School of / Graduate
| Identifer | oai:union.ndltd.org:UBC/oai:circle.library.ubc.ca:2429/11301 |
| Date | 05 1900 |
| Creators | Lai, Sylvia H. G. |
| Source Sets | University of British Columbia |
| Language | English |
| Detected Language | English |
| Type | Text, Thesis/Dissertation |
| Format | 6137037 bytes, application/pdf |
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