Blended families are fast becoming the pattern for marriage in a century where divorce
is prevalent. This study focussed on the fact that couples are not being adequately prepared
through premarital counselling for the problem areas found within the blended family.
The basis theoretical perspective revealed that problems that are typical today within
the blended family were shown to be present from the moment that man deviated from God's
plan for the ideal marriage, and that many examples of this are found in the Bible.
The meta theoretical perspective showed that there are very specific problems
associated with couples who consider marriage for a second time. The research indicated that
the conflict manifested itself w i t h four major areas: Parental conflict; discipline of children;
maternal negativity; and the crisis of identity found within stepchildren.
The empirical section of this study revealed that the premarital counselling used by
couples facing a blended marriage did not adequately prepare them and that of all the couples
surveyed, whether they had done premarital counselling or not, all had struggled within the
same areas in their marriages. It was found that there were large gaps within the premarital
counselling given and that these gaps correlated with the four main conflict issues mentioned
earlier. Furthermore, the study showed that the church is not regarded as being the institution
that can help blended families in their conflict issues.
Remarital counselling guidelines have been proposed in the form of an acronym
'WISER FAMILIES'. These guidelines address particularly the conflict areas that the research
identified, which were not addressed by conventional premarital counselling. Guidelines were
also proposed for churches, to assist them in dealing with the problems experienced by
blended families, and suggests practical ways to meet their needs, using the implementation of support and focus groups. / Thesis (M.A. (Pastoral))--North-West University, Potchefstroom Campus, 2007
| Identifer | oai:union.ndltd.org:netd.ac.za/oai:union.ndltd.org:nwu/oai:dspace.nwu.ac.za:10394/1708 |
| Date | January 2007 |
| Creators | Basson, Jennifer Louise |
| Publisher | North-West University |
| Source Sets | South African National ETD Portal |
| Detected Language | English |
| Type | Thesis |
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