Made available in DSpace on 2014-12-17T15:38:56Z (GMT). No. of bitstreams: 1 AnaRLM.pdf: 556105 bytes, checksum: b04dd2200938b302f4a898f81a582a24 (MD5) Previous issue date: 2004-06-17 / Coordena??o de Aperfei?oamento de Pessoal de N?vel Superior / Our professional everyday life, as a psychologist, we often come across the narrative made by women of a permanent suffering experience in loving and sexual relation. This checking created questions which indicated to the questioned experience singularity, taking into account the historic and cultural aspects (genre and romantic love) that seemed to permeate such an experience. The conduction given to this research was guided by the following question: how is to the woman the experience of going on suffering on loving and sexual relation? Therefore, the objective was to understand that experience. Were carried out with six women that were living the experience which intend to investigate. The narrative, in according to the purposal by Walter Benjamin was the access tool to the experience. The narrative analysis shows the singularity of constant suffering experience on loving relation as well as common aspects. It is remarkable the presence of relative questions to the genre and romantic loving dimension, influencing the way as the interviewed women perceive themselves on the existence and realize the loving suffering which experience. Women reveal several ways of expressing and perceiving to the loving suffering which is common the manifestation of several physical and psychic symptoms. The most participants had experiences of protected familiar contact of feeling development of low self-esteem, disability, unstableness and fear. We realize that the suffering of interviewed women, on loving relation, it revels, above all, a way of being in the world, perveiving themselves, marked by solitude fear, lovelessness, leading the life itself giving origin to the lifestyle and of really new loving. Thus, we emphasize the importance of greater engagement of professionals and institutions which deal with the thematic this research in order to develop actions that consider its complexity. We also emphasize new reflections about the loving suffering so that different sense possibilities can emerge propitiating a greater comprehension of human subjectivity / Em nosso cotidiano profissional, como psic?loga, deparamo-nos, freq?entemente, com a narra??o feita por mulheres de uma experi?ncia de sofrimento permanente, na rela??o amorosa. Essa constata??o gerou indaga??es que apontavam para a singularidade da experi?ncia em quest?o, considerando-se os aspectos culturais e hist?ricos (g?nero e amor-rom?ntico) que pareciam permear tal experi?ncia. O encaminhamento dado a esta pesquisa foi norteado pela seguinte quest?o: como ? para a mulher a experi?ncia de permanecer sofrendo na rela??o amorosa? O objetivo, portanto, foi compreender essa experi?ncia. Foram realizadas entrevistas semi-abertas com seis mulheres que estavam vivendo a experi?ncia que buscamos investigar. A narrativa, tal como proposta por Walter Benjamin foi o instrumento de acesso ? experi?ncia. A an?lise das narrativas evidencia a singularidade da experi?ncia de sofrimento constante na rela??o amorosa bem como aspectos comuns. ? marcante a presen?a de quest?es relativas ? dimens?o de g?nero e do amor-rom?ntico, influenciando a forma como as mulheres entrevistadas se percebem na exist?ncia e d?o sentido ao sofrimento amoroso que vivenciam. As mulheres revelam diversas formas de expressar e perceber o sofrimento amoroso, sendo comum a manifesta??o de v?rios sintomas f?sicos e ps?quicos. V?rias participantes tiveram experi?ncias de conv?vio familiar favorecedor do desenvolvimento de sentimentos de baixa auto-estima, incapacidade, inseguran?a e medo. Entendemos que o sofrimento das mulheres entrevistadas, na rela??o amorosa, revela, sobretudo, um modo de estar no mundo, de perceber-se, marcado pelo medo da solid?o, do desamor, de empunhar a pr?pria vida, dando origem a um modo de viver e de amar realmente novos. Salientamos assim a import?ncia de haver maior empenho dos profissionais e institui??es que lidam com a tem?tica desta pesquisa, no sentido de desenvolver a??es que considerem sua complexidade. Tamb?m enfatizamos a necessidade de novas reflex?es sobre o sofrimento amoroso, a fim de que diferentes possibilidades de sentido possam emergir, propiciando uma maior compreens?o da subjetividade humana