Made available in DSpace on 2016-04-28T20:39:10Z (GMT). No. of bitstreams: 1 Talita Vendrame de Oliveira.pdf: 3921212 bytes, checksum: 89d14870685febc5fbce63054d0b2c5c (MD5) Previous issue date: 2015-09-24 / Coordenação de Aperfeiçoamento de Pessoal de Nível Superior / The experience of living with the HIV virus and Aids has had new settings throughout the history of the epidemic, especially as the affective-sexual relationships of these people. Knowledge of HIV status causes changes in emotional settings and it aimed to comprise the meanings of affective-sexual relationships and marital relationship of people who lives with HIV/Aids and how is the process of self-care from the perspective of socio-historical psychology. Our employment was made with a database built from a data already collected between 2006 - 2007 and 2010 - 2012, consisting of 85 participants who had responded the 14 selected questions for the sample. The analysis of the data was performed from the elaboration of meanings cores and to deepen the qualitative analysis was realized one Hierarchical Analysis similarity generating clusters and used the testimonies of the people to illustrate the meanings of affective-sexual relationships and the influence of this relations in the promotion of self-care. The results obtained four clusters, two female and two male. The Cluster1 (women and men) is characterized by being made up of married couples, older, less scholarity and are in a stable relationship a longer time. These people tend reproduce the hegemonic standard of the feminine and masculine. The Cluster 2 (women and men) is characterized by being made up of younger people with a higher level of education, compared with Clusters1 and people who are in a shorter stable relationship or not in a stable relationship. These people have an idealization of romantic relationship, which is what they would like to construct, but at the same time have a better understanding of the real life and are more integrated psychologically. The results show that participants in this sample tend to reproduce the hegemonic pattern of affective-sexual relationships, often uncritically. On the other hand some participants can create new meanings to their relations and thereby build greater self awareness, changing some behaviors and having a better quality in their relationships, which may be a factor promoting self-care / A vivência com o vírus do HIV e com a Aids tem tido novas configurações ao longo da história da epidemia, principalmente quanto as relações afetivas sexuais dessas pessoas. O conhecimento da soropositividade causa alterações nas configurações amorosas com isso objetivou-se compreender as significações das relações afetivo - sexuais e das possibilidades de conjugalidade das pessoas que vivem com HIV/Aids e como desenvolvem seu autocuidado, na perspectiva da psicologia sócio- histórica. Trabalhamos com um banco de dados construído a partir de dados já coletados entre os anos de 2006 - 2007 e 2010 2012, constituído por 85 participantes, os quais haviam respondido14 perguntas pré selecionadas para compor a amostra. A análise dos dados foi efetuada a partir da elaboração de Núcleos de Significados e para o aprofundamento da análise qualitativa foi realizada uma Análise Hierárquica por similaridade gerando clusters e utilizou-se as falas das pessoas para exemplificar as significações das relações afetivas-sexuais e qual a influencia dessas no autocuidado. Nos resultados obtivemos quatro Clusters, sendo dois femininos e dois masculinos. O Cluster1 (das mulheres e dos homens) é caracterizado por ser formado por pessoas casadas, mais velhas, com menor escolaride e estão em um relacionamento estável a mais tempo. Essas pessoas tendem a reproduzir o papel hegemônico esperado do feminino e do masculino. O Cluster 2 (das mulheres e dos homens) é caracterizado por ser formado por pessoas mais jovens, com um nível maior de escolaridade, comparado com os Clusters1 e por pessoas que estão há menos tempo em uma relação estável ou não possuem um relacionamento estável. Essas pessoas apresentam uma idealização do relacionamento afetivo, o que representa o que elas gostariam de construir, mas ao mesmo tempo tem uma melhor compreensão da realidade vivida, sendo mais integradas psiquicamente. Os resultados nos mostram que os participantes desta amostra tendem a reproduzir o padrão hegemônico das relações afetivo-sexuais, muitas vezes sem crítica. Por outro lado alguns participantes conseguem criar novos sentidos para as suas relações e com isso, construir uma maior auto consciência, modificando alguns comportamentos e tendo uma melhor qualidade em suas relações, o que pode ser um fator que promotor do autocuidado

Sex is a biologically based classification, determining whether an individual is male or female. Comparatively, gender is a socially designed construct, which varies between cultures and prescribes what it means to be a man or a woman. Western culture suggests all individuals fall neatly into one of these two groups. Females are expected to display feminine characteristics such as being nurturers, while males are expected to display masculine characteristics such as being providers. There exists, however, a population of individuals who identify themselves as "transgender," meaning, they feel inconsistency between their internal sense of gender identity and their birth-assigned biological sex and/or assigned gender role. These individuals wish to separate from their birth-assigned gender role and express through physical modification their true gender identity. In the context of romantic relationships, it was once thought that disclosure of one partner's transgender identity meant inevitable demise of the relationship. Clinical guidelines offered advice to the transgender partner, suggesting they abandon their family, change their identity, and begin a new life elsewhere (Lev, 2004). More recently, however, clinical experiences suggest the possibility that many transgender people can maintain healthy and sustainable relationships. This study sought to understand the impact of gender transition on the sexual relationship and sexual orientation of female-to-male (FTM) transgender individuals and their cisgender female partners. / Master of Science

Digitized using a Konica Minolta 211 PCL Scanner. 300dpi (OCR). / Thesis (MA (Psychology))--University of Stellenbosch, 2006. / ENGLISH ABSTRACT: Intimate heterosexual relationships play a vital role in shaping the lives of many people, and have therefore become an important topic of research within psychology. The South African population is also currently faced with many prevalent psychosocial problems, such as HIV/Aids, rape, violence against women and divorce, which need to be contextualised within the context of intimate heterosexual relationships. Research on intimate heterosexual relationships has therefore become a priority. In order to determine directions and priorities for such research, the objective of this assignment was to provide a review of selected international and South African research on intimate heterosexual relationships. This review focused on: the definition and operationalisation of intimate heterosexual relationships; the salient theoretical frameworks used; the characteristics of participants; as well as the methodologies employed by relationship researchers. The review highlighted the following: A variety of terms is used by relationship researchers to conceptualise intimate heterosexual relationships which makes it difficult to integrate intimate heterosexual relationship research. Although theoretical frameworks like the social learning theory, cognitive behavioural theory and some metatheoretical perspectives such as postmodernism, feminism and social constructivism are utiiised, South African relationship researchers mostly have an atheoretical approach to research. A review of the research participants revealed that most participants in South African relationship studies are married adults. While the male-female ratio of the participants was balanced, the diversity of the South African population was not well represented in these studies. Researchers mostly used qualitative research strategies and employed the survey method of data gathering. Based on these findings, it was recommended that relationship researchers should recognise the need to clarify the relationship concepts used in their studies; attempt to incorporate better-known relationship theories; ensure that the South African population is well represented; and to combine qualitative research strategies with quantitative research strategies. / AFRIKAANSE OPSOMMINGE: Intieme heteroseksuele verhoudings speel 'n deurslaggewende rol in die vorming van baie mense se lewens en het daarom 'n belangrike navorsingsonderwerp in sielkunde geword. Die SuidAfrikaanse populasie staar tans verskeie psigososiaie probleme so os MIVNigs, verkragting, geweld teen vrou en egskeiding in die gesig, wat almal binne die konteks van intieme heteroseksuele verhoudings gekonseptualiseer behoort te word. Navorsing oor intieme heteroseksuele verhoudings het daarom 'n prioriteit geword. Ten einde rigtings en prioriteite vir sulke navorsing te bepaal, was die doel van hierdie werksopdrag om 'n oorsig te voorsien van selektiewe internasionale en Suid-Afrikaanse navorsing oor intieme heteroseksuele verhoudings. Hierdie oorsig het gefokus op: die definisie en operasionalisering van intieme heteroseksuele verhoudings; die prominente teoretiese raamwerke wat gebruik is; die karaktereienskappe van die deelnemers; so wei as die metodologiee wat deur verhoudingsnavorsers gebruik is. Die oorsig het die volgende duidelik gemaak: 'n Verskeidenheid van terme word deur verhoudingsnavorsers gebruik om intieme heteroseksuele verhoudings te konseptualiseer en die die integrasie van intieme heteroseksuele verhoudingsnavorsing word daardeur bemoeilik. Alhoewel teoretiese raamwerke soos die sosiale leerteorie, kognitiewe gedragsteorie en sekere metateoretiese perspektiewe soos postmodernisme, feminisme en sosiale konstruktivisme gebruik word, het Suid-Afrikaanse verhoudingsnavorsers grotendeels 'n ateoretiese benadering tot navorsing. 'n Oorsig van die deelnemers van die studies het getoon dat die meeste deelnemers in Suid-Afrikaanse verhoudingstudies getroude volwassenes is. Terwyle die manvrou ratio van die deelnemers gebalanseerd was, is die diversiteit van die Suid-Afrikaanse populasie nie goed verteenwoordig in die studies nie. Navorsers gebruik meestal kwalitatiewe navorsingstrategiee en gebruik grotendeels die opame-metode van dataherwinning. Op grond van hierdie bevindinge, is daar aanbeveel dat verhoudingsnavorsers die behoefte aan die verheldering van verhoudingskonsepte in hulle studies moet herken; moet poog om meer bekende verhoudingsteoriee te inkorporeer; te verseker dat die Suid-Afrikaanse populasie goed verteenwoordig is; en kwalitatiewe navorsingsstrategiee met kwantitatiewe navorsingstrategiee moet kombineer.

Coach-athlete sexual relationships (CASR) and sexual harassment and abuse (SHA) in sport can profoundly impact athletes’ welfare and performance. Yet, it is often ignored due to sensitivity, secrecy, and lack of knowledge. There is no previous research on SHA in sport in Sweden, and legal, consensual, same-sex CASR is under-researched. The overall purpose of this doctoral thesis is to examine CASR in competitive sport in Sweden. More specifically: a) athletes’ experiences of CASR; b) prevalence of SHA in coach-athlete relationships; c) conceptual and theoretical issues to broaden the understanding of CASR and SHA, will be examined. Survey methodology is employed in Article I to explore the prevalence of SHA, coach-athlete relationship factors, and association between relationship factors and SHA. A random sample of current and former male and female Swedish athletes (n=477) aged 25 participated. Article II outlines critical issues of CASR, and theories and conceptualisations of romantic love, sexual consent, and female athlete sexual agency is further developed in the thesis research summary. Drawing on interviews with five female elite athletes aged 23-30, experiences of CASR are analysed in-depth using discourse analyses in Article III and narrative case study design in Article IV. Results show that athletes’ experiences of CASR are positively and negatively diverse but potentially problematic because boundary ambiguity, secrecy, and isolation are common. Social and ethical dilemmas may also occur because CASR intersect contrasting discourses regarding elite sport, coach–athlete relationships, and romantic love. Moreover, CASR integrate professional and private contexts in which equality and power deviate. The research illustrates empirically and theoretically how female elite athletes exercise agency and recognise consensual, mutually desired CASR where romantic love is priority. However, sexual consent can be ambivalent rather than a mutually exclusive yes/no dualism. Socially, consent is a process of negotiation informed by contextual factors, sexual agency, and social structure. In addition, 5.5% prevalence of SHA perpetrated by male coaches is reported, distributed throughout the sampled athletes’ gender, age, sport performance levels, and individual/team sports in the sample. In conclusion, this thesis expands knowledge of athletes’ experiences of love, sexual consent, and abuse in CASR. Previous evidence of SHA in sport is confirmed to include sport in Sweden. Implications for sport and sport sciences are offered.

Historiskt sett har mycket förändrats inom den kvinnliga sexualiteten, kvinnorna har gått från att inte ha några rättigheter alls till att under 1900-talet få fler och fler rättigheter. Hjärnan har stor betydelse för den sexuella lusten och många faktorer påverkar kvinnans lust. Påverkande faktorer på kvinnors lust och sexualliv efter att de har fött barn är bland annat fysiska, psykiska och hormonella. Syftet med studien är att beskriva kvinnors upplevelse av den sexuella lusten och sexuallivet efter att de har fött sitt första barn. Författarna har intervjuat kvinnor om deras upplevelse av sin sexuella lust samt sexuallivet när barnet var 9-18 månader, då kvinnan förmodas ha uppnått en trygghet i sin föräldraroll. En kvalitativ innehållsanalys med induktiv ansats användes vid analys och tolkning av intervjuerna i syfte att hitta essensen och få fram ett resultat. Förändringen det innebär att bli mamma leder till att den sexuella lusten minskar för flertalet kvinnor. Detta påverkade i sin tur att sexuallivet med partnern minskade i frekvens. En framträdande faktor som påverkade lusten och sexuallivet var trötthet, vilket gjorde att sömnen prioriterades. Kvinnorna kände sig även distraherade av barnets närvaro vid samlag samt att amningen innebar att bröstens syfte förändrades. De flesta kvinnorna upplevde trots allt att mammarollen medfört positiva förändringar för dem själva, hur de såg på sin kropp samt att de fått ett nyvunnet självförtroende. En minskad sexuell lust eller en minskad frekvens av sexuallivet under en period av livet innebar inte att kvinnan upplevde en nedsatt sexuell hälsa. Kvinnorna hade önskat en rakare kommunikation med barnmorskan runt den sexuella hälsan. Det är således av stor vikt att barnmorskor förbättrar sin kunskapsnivå om den kvinnliga sexuella hälsan.Abstract: Historically, much has changed in female sexuality, women have gone from not having any rights at all to in the 1900s getting more and more rights. The brain are important for sexual desire and many factors affect a woman´s desire. Influencing factors on women's desire and intimate sexual relationship after they have given birth include physical, psychological and hormonal. The aim of the study was to describe women's experience of sexual desire and intimate sexual relationship after she has given birth to her first child. The authors have interviewed nine women about their experience of sexual desire and intimate sexual relationship when the child was 9-18 months old, when the woman is believed to have achieved a sense of security in her parental role. A qualitative content analysis with an inductive approach was used in the analysis and interpretation of the interviews in order to find the essence and get a result. The change it means to be a mother leads to a decrease in sexual desire for most women. This in turn affected the intimate sexual relationship with the partner which decreased in frequency. A prominent factor influencing desire and intimate sexual relationship were fatigue, which made sleep a priority. The women also felt distracted by the child's presence during intercourse and that breastfeeding meant that the breasts purpose changed. Most women felt that motherhood after all brought positive changes for themselves, how they viewed their body and that they received a new confidence. A decrease in sexual desire or a decreased frequency of the intimate sexual relationship during a period of life does not mean that the woman experienced decreased sexual health. The women would have preferred a more direct communication with the midwife around sexual health. It is thus very important that midwives improve their level of knowledge about female sexual health. / Program: Barnmorskeutbildning

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Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis (IUPUI) / Little existing research has examined women’s solo masturbation and vibrator usage in a way that highlights the importance of both sexual agency and the sexual/romantic relationship context. This research evaluates if and how social factors, partnership status and the relationship context, and sexual self-concept impact a woman’s behaviors and attitudes toward masturbation and vibrator use. Using cross-sectional survey data from adult women (N=112), descriptive and bivariate analyses were used to explore a variety of factors. Single and partnered women did not differ significantly on a majority of measures, suggesting that partnership status may play an insignificant role in predicting women’s solo sex attitudes and behaviors. Regarding the relationship context, partner communication and positivity toward masturbation and vibrator use significantly varied together. Finally, greater sexual openness and sexual entitlement were associated with higher masturbation frequency. Results from this study suggest that masturbation and vibrator use are common among adult women, and women are capable of sexual agency in relation to masturbation and vibrator use, whether they are in established partnerships or not.

Ce mémoire porte sur l’impureté dans la religion grecque et plus particulièrement sur le miasme causé par des évènements relevant de la vie intime. L’objectif de cette étude est de dresser un portrait complet de la vie intime par l’analyse des inscriptions religieuses et des documents littéraires. L’analyse de ces sources permet de dégager les modalités d’accès au temple et les processus purificatoires nécessaires pour recouvrer son état de pureté. De cet objectif en découle un second : formuler une théorie explicative sur l’origine de l’impureté en Grèce ancienne qui s’éloigne des théories interprétatives traditionnelles en misant davantage sur l’apport des sciences cognitives et la psychologie sociale à cette question. Divisée en quatre chapitres, la recherche porte d’abord sur l’impureté liée aux menstruations, un évènement profondément intime et peu étudié en raison de tabous modernes persistants. Le deuxième chapitre s’attarde quant à lui à l’impureté des relations sexuelles. Plus spécifiquement, cette deuxième section analyse les différences entre le miasme causé par des relations entre époux et par des relations extraconjugales. Le troisième chapitre du mémoire porte sur les évènements liés à la maternité, soit l’accouchement, l’avortement, la fausse-couche et l’allaitement. La mise en juxtaposition de plusieurs cas d’impureté permet de relever certaines tendances ou similarités. Finalement, le quatrième chapitre de cette étude consiste en l’exploration des théories biologiques et cognitives pouvant expliquer l’origine de l’impureté en Grèce ancienne. Cet ultime chapitre permet de conclure que l’impureté relève en partie de processus cognitifs et de réflexes qui ont été socialement renforcés par la religion grecque. / This master’s thesis concern impurity in Greek religion and more specifically the miasma related to the intimate life. The aim of this study is to provide a comprehensive portrait of intimate life through the analysis of religious inscriptions and literary documents. The examination of these sources allow the identification of the modalities for entering the temple and the processes necessary to regain its state of purity. This first objective leads to a second: I aim to formulate an explanatory theory on the origin of impurity in ancient Greece that departs from the traditional and interpretative theories by taking into account the contribution of cognitive science and social psychology to this question. Divided into four chapters, the research first focuses on the impurity of menstruation, a deeply intimate event and little studied due to persistent modern taboos. The second chapter dwells on the impurity of sexual relations. More specifically, this second section analyzes the differences between the miasma caused by relationships between spouses and by extramarital relationships. The third chapter deals with events related to motherhood, namely childbirth, abortion, miscarriage and breastfeeding. The juxtaposition of several types of impurity allow the identification of certain trends or similarities. Finally, the fourth chapter consists of the exploration of the biological and cognitive theories that could explain the origin of impurity in Ancient Greece. This final chapter seek to conclude that impurity is partly due to cognitive processes and reflexes which have been socially reinforced by the Greek religion.

Summaries in Afrikaans and English / ‘n Praktiese teologiese probleem is in die bediening geïndentifiseer: die man wie se vrou ‘n mastektomie gehad het, word nie pastoraal ondersteun nie. Hierdie probleem is deur middel van kwalitatiewe navorsing ondersoek. Met die kennis uit die navorsing en die literatuurstudie is daaraan die navorsingsdoelstelling beantwoord. Hierdeur is die praktiese teologie op ‘n unieke wyse verryk, deur ‘n wetenskaplike bydrae om die pastorale berader beter te bekwaam. Borskanker is ‘n lewensbedreigde siekte waarop geen man voorberei is nie. Met die verlies van ‘n kosbare liggaamsdeel van die vrou en haar behoefte aan ondersteuning van haar man, begin hy om sy ware-man wees (identiteit) te bevraagteken. Die verlies het ook trauma by die man tot gevolg. As die man deur sy emosies oorweldig word en hy nie oor die vermoë beskik om dit te verwerk nie, kan hy in wanhoop verval. Die man lewe in die postmoderne era. Die uitdagings en onsekerhede van hierdie era het ‘n bydrae tot die ontwikkeling van die “Post-foundational” praktiese teologiese benadering gelewer. Daarom het die navorser besluit om hierdie benadering in die studie te volg. Hierdeur is ‘n gesprek tussen die praktiese teologie, mediese- en geesteswetenskappe vanuit ‘n transversale perspektief moontlik, om die invloed van die mastektomie op die man te bepaal. Duidelike behoeftes en vrae kom navore wat vereis dat die berader homself sal onderskei in kennis van die onderskeie pastorale benaderings en tegnieke, toepaslike mediese, Bybel- en geestes wetenskappe. Die omstandighede waarin die man hom bevind het die bevraagtekening van sy spiritualiteit tot gevolg. Sy spiritualiteit kan vir hom van groot waarde wees. Die doel van die beradingsmodel is om die man te fasiliteer om sy ware identiteit in Christus te ontdek. Deur die genade van die Here word geloofsvolwassenheid in die man ‘n waarheid. Daardeur vind transendering ten opsigte van ‘n “bevraagde identiteit” na ‘n “identiteit van betekenis en hoop” plaas. Deur die werking van die Heilige Gees word die man op die vervulling van God se heilsbeloftes vir die nood waarin verkeer verseker. Die doel van hierdie beradingsmodel vir die praktiese teologie, is ‘n geloofsvolwasse man met ‘n nuwe toekomsverhaal. / A practical theological problem was identified in the ministry: a husband whose wife undergoes a mastectomy does not receive pastoral care. This problem was investigated through a qualitative research study. The research objective was answered by doing research and a literature study. This scientific research enriches the practical theology in an unique way so that the pastoral counsellor is supported and can be more competent. Breast cancer is a life-threatening disease that no husband is prepared for. The wife loses an intimate part of her body and needs to be supported by her husband. He starts to question his own manhood (identity). This loss is also a traumatic experiences for him. He is overwhelmed by his emotions and can fall into despair if he does not have the ability to process the problem. We live in the post-modern era. This has lead to the development of the Post-foundational practical theological approach. The researcher therefore decided to follow this approach in his study. This help to determine the influence of the disruption and uncertainties in the life of the man through a discourse between the practical theology, medical- and human science from a transversal perspective. Evident questions were raised for which the counsellor needs to distinguish himself with knowledge about the various pastoral approaches and techniques, appropriate knowledge of the Bible, medical- and human science. The circumstances in which the man finds himself raise questions about the meaning of his spirituality. Spirituality can be of great help for the husband. The aim of this counseling model is to facilitate the husband through the narrative approach to find the meaning of his true identity in Christ. Through the grace of God the husband becomes spiritually mature. The dependence on God through a process of transcendence changes the ‘question identity’ to an ‘identity of value and hope’. Through the work of Holy Spirit the husband is reassured of the fulfillment of the promises of salvation by God. The aim of this counseling model for the practical theology is a spiritually matured husband with a new future story. / Practical Theology / D. Th. (Practical Theology)

Summaries in Afrikaans and English / ‘n Praktiese teologiese probleem is in die bediening geïndentifiseer: die man wie se vrou ‘n mastektomie gehad het, word nie pastoraal ondersteun nie. Hierdie probleem is deur middel van kwalitatiewe navorsing ondersoek. Met die kennis uit die navorsing en die literatuurstudie is daaraan die navorsingsdoelstelling beantwoord. Hierdeur is die praktiese teologie op ‘n unieke wyse verryk, deur ‘n wetenskaplike bydrae om die pastorale berader beter te bekwaam. Borskanker is ‘n lewensbedreigde siekte waarop geen man voorberei is nie. Met die verlies van ‘n kosbare liggaamsdeel van die vrou en haar behoefte aan ondersteuning van haar man, begin hy om sy ware-man wees (identiteit) te bevraagteken. Die verlies het ook trauma by die man tot gevolg. As die man deur sy emosies oorweldig word en hy nie oor die vermoë beskik om dit te verwerk nie, kan hy in wanhoop verval. Die man lewe in die postmoderne era. Die uitdagings en onsekerhede van hierdie era het ‘n bydrae tot die ontwikkeling van die “Post-foundational” praktiese teologiese benadering gelewer. Daarom het die navorser besluit om hierdie benadering in die studie te volg. Hierdeur is ‘n gesprek tussen die praktiese teologie, mediese- en geesteswetenskappe vanuit ‘n transversale perspektief moontlik, om die invloed van die mastektomie op die man te bepaal. Duidelike behoeftes en vrae kom navore wat vereis dat die berader homself sal onderskei in kennis van die onderskeie pastorale benaderings en tegnieke, toepaslike mediese, Bybel- en geestes wetenskappe. Die omstandighede waarin die man hom bevind het die bevraagtekening van sy spiritualiteit tot gevolg. Sy spiritualiteit kan vir hom van groot waarde wees. Die doel van die beradingsmodel is om die man te fasiliteer om sy ware identiteit in Christus te ontdek. Deur die genade van die Here word geloofsvolwassenheid in die man ‘n waarheid. Daardeur vind transendering ten opsigte van ‘n “bevraagde identiteit” na ‘n “identiteit van betekenis en hoop” plaas. Deur die werking van die Heilige Gees word die man op die vervulling van God se heilsbeloftes vir die nood waarin verkeer verseker. Die doel van hierdie beradingsmodel vir die praktiese teologie, is ‘n geloofsvolwasse man met ‘n nuwe toekomsverhaal. / A practical theological problem was identified in the ministry: a husband whose wife undergoes a mastectomy does not receive pastoral care. This problem was investigated through a qualitative research study. The research objective was answered by doing research and a literature study. This scientific research enriches the practical theology in an unique way so that the pastoral counsellor is supported and can be more competent. Breast cancer is a life-threatening disease that no husband is prepared for. The wife loses an intimate part of her body and needs to be supported by her husband. He starts to question his own manhood (identity). This loss is also a traumatic experiences for him. He is overwhelmed by his emotions and can fall into despair if he does not have the ability to process the problem. We live in the post-modern era. This has lead to the development of the Post-foundational practical theological approach. The researcher therefore decided to follow this approach in his study. This help to determine the influence of the disruption and uncertainties in the life of the man through a discourse between the practical theology, medical- and human science from a transversal perspective. Evident questions were raised for which the counsellor needs to distinguish himself with knowledge about the various pastoral approaches and techniques, appropriate knowledge of the Bible, medical- and human science. The circumstances in which the man finds himself raise questions about the meaning of his spirituality. Spirituality can be of great help for the husband. The aim of this counseling model is to facilitate the husband through the narrative approach to find the meaning of his true identity in Christ. Through the grace of God the husband becomes spiritually mature. The dependence on God through a process of transcendence changes the ‘question identity’ to an ‘identity of value and hope’. Through the work of Holy Spirit the husband is reassured of the fulfillment of the promises of salvation by God. The aim of this counseling model for the practical theology is a spiritually matured husband with a new future story. / Philosophy, Practical and Systematic Theology / D. Th. (Practical Theology)