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男性警察配偶家務分工、婚姻滿意度與家庭價值之研究 / A study of the Diveision of Household Labor, Marital Satisfacion and Family Value of Male Police Officers'Spouses.彭宗平 Unknown Date (has links)
警務工作在國家政府組織中依法所賦予的任務是維持公共秩序、保護社會安全、防止一切危害以促進人民福利。警察任務的達成與否及其執行的態度如何,直接觸及人民的權益及社會安全秩序。在現實的生活中警察人員的私領域如何?尤其是警察人員的家庭生活。警察工作的特質對警察人員的家庭生活影響情況為何;又如何的轉過來的影響到警察工作。自是值得研究的重要課題。
本研究旨在探討男性警察配偶對於其家庭之家務分工、婚姻滿意度與家庭價值之情況。為瞭解不同的個人特質,對於家務分工、婚姻滿意度與家庭價值等各面向有無差異,採取問卷調查法。問卷採自行編制而成之「家庭價值觀量表」,以進行施測。
樣本來源,係以台北縣為例,將範圍界定於以男性警察為配偶的女性作為研究對象,研究內容只限於男性警察的家庭,樣本選取係以台北縣政府警察局外勤工作警察為對象。範圍包括15個分局,有效樣本533份,有效回收比率88.83%。研究項目分為下列4部分:一、警察配偶基本資料。二、家務分工量表。三、婚姻滿意度量表。四、家庭價值量表。主要在於想了解不同的個人特質對警察家庭的家務分工參與頻率、家務分工參與情形、婚姻滿意度、家庭價值觀四變項之間的差異性及相關情形。
問卷回收後,經統計分析,首先採次數分配與平均數之描述性統計,對問卷內容做普遍性地描述,進而對「家事參與頻率」、「家事在何種情況下完成」、「婚姻滿意度」、以及「家庭價值」量表,進一步利用SAS進行因素分析,中萃取共同因素,再以變異法作正交轉軸分析,在分析過程中,取艾根值大於1。在家事參與頻率中,共計有12個有效項目,從中萃取5個因素,因素1協助採買頻率;因素2協助整理頻率;因素3協助修繕頻率;因素4協助清洗頻率;因素5家人互動。總解釋量為55.46%。在家事在何種情況下完成中,共計有12個有效項目,從中萃取3個因素,因素1家居環境情況;因素2清洗餵食情況;因素3與家人互動情況,總解釋量為85.14%。在婚姻滿意度中,計有31個有效項目,從中萃取5個因素,因素1情緒交流;因素2婚姻生活;因素3婚姻維持;因素4尊重因素;因素5婚姻重要性,總解釋量為67.88%。在家庭價值觀中,計有37個有效項目,從中萃取8個因素,因素1生兒育女;因素2子女養育;因素3父母權威;因素4成員互助;因素5婚姻正當性;因素6子女價值;因素7婚姻破綻;因素8角色分工,總解釋量為67.05。
進而針對這些因素,與個人基本資料進行差異性檢驗,以及家務分工、婚姻滿意度、家庭價值等三個量表之間之相關分析。以對假設進行檢驗,結果發現:1.個人背景因素之不同與婚姻滿意度之間有顯著差異性,部分修正。2. 個人背景因素之不同與家務分工之間有顯著差異性,部分修正。3.個人背景因素之不同與家庭價值之間有顯著差異性,部分修正。婚姻滿意度、家務分工與家庭價值之間有顯著相關,此部分完全成立。
本研究根據研究結果,提出十點建議,以供相關單位參考:(一)夫妻溝通、彼此配合協調。(二)調整勤務、配合正常作息。(三)分擔家務、減輕妻子負擔。(四)角色執行、避免過度權威。(五)身心健康、當前重要課題。(六)勤休合度、勤務家庭並重。(七)落實代理、分擔個人責任。(八)伴兒成長、舉辦親子活動。(九)三代同堂、重視倫理價值。 / The duty of police service work is entrusted legally to maintain the public peace, protect social security and prevent all harms to improve people's welfare by national government. How does the duty achieve or not and the execution manner touches people's rights and the social security order directly. How is the police officers' personal life, particularly their personal family life in reality? How is the job characteristics influence their family life and also how the family life influence their work performance? The work/life interaction is the important topic which is worth studying.
The purpose of the research is to discuss the masculine police spouses' value of housework division, the degree of marital satisfaction and the attitude regarding their family value. In order to understand the difference between the individual characteristics and the three aspects mentioned above, we adopt the questionnaire survey. The questionnaire was self-established and executed by “the family values scale.”
To take Taipei County as the example, limits in the masculine police's spouse as the object of this study. The research content is restricted in the masculine polices' family and the sample selection takes the Taipei County Police Department, the front-end officers, as an object. With 15 branches included, 533 effective samples and 88.83% effectively return rate, the research divides into the following 4 parts: First, the spouses' basic information. Second, the housework division scale. Third, the degree of marital satisfaction scale. Finally, the family value scale. It aims to understand the deviation and correlation between individual characteristic and the four variables, the housework participation frequency, situation, the marital satisfaction degree and the family values.
After recovering the questionnaires, we adopt frequency and the description analysis through statistics analysis. And then do the common description to the questionnaires content, then to "family affairs participation frequency", "family affairs that condition under completion" , "marriage satisfaction" , and "family value" scales. Further, we carry on Causal Factor Analysis (aka CSA) in extract a common factor, and make by Variation Method over Shaft Analysis and Varimax. In this analysis, make eigenvalue greater than one(Kaiser's rule).
In the housework participation rate, there are 12 effective items, extracted 5 factors from it: 1. the assistant rate of purchasing; 2. the assistant rate of cleaning; 3. the assistant rate of repairing house stuffs; 4. the assistant rate of washing; 5. the interactions. The total explanation quantity is 55.46%.
In the housework accomplishment circumstances rate, there are 12 effective items, extracted 3 factors from it: 1. the environment; 2. the assistant of washing and feeding; 3. the interactions. The total explanation quantity is 85.14%.
In the marital satisfaction degree, there are 31 effective items, extracted 5 factors from it: 1. emotional and psychological interaction; 2. the marriage life; 3. the maintenance of marriage; 4. esteem of each other; 5. the importance of marriage. The total explanation quantity is 67.88%.
In the value of family, there are 37 effective items, extracted 8 factors from it: 1. child bearing and rearing; 2. child rearing; 3. the parents' authority; 4. helping each other; 5. the validity of marriage; 6. the value of child bearing; 7. the marriage flaws; 8. role divisions. The total explanation quantity is 67.05%.
Then aim at the factors, carry on a Differencial with personal information. And division of household, marriage satisfaction, family value...etc. three forms of scales is analytical.
With assumption that carry on an examination, find the following result:
1. The dissimilarity of personal background factor and of the marriage satisfaction has significance difference and the part is revised.
2. The dissimilarity of personal background factor and of the division of household has significance difference and the part is revised.
3. The dissimilarity of personal background factor and of the family value has
significance difference and the part revised. Be related between family value and marriage satisfaction, division of household, this part completely establishes.
Based on those findings, 10 suggestions proposed to be a reference for the related organizations: 1. Communicate with each other. 2. Adjust working hours, try to live normally. 3. share housework, reduce spouse's workload. 4. the role play, avoids excessively authoritative. 5. physical and moral integrity is the most important topic. 6. work/life balances, pays equal attention to job and family. 7. to execute proxy plan, share the work load. 8. companion grows, conducts the parent-child activity. 9. three generations under the same roof, take ethics value.
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單身男女之擇偶條件與婚姻態度之研究—以台北縣市軍公教人員為例 / The Study of ideal relationship and marital attitude of singles on the subject of public service in Taipei city and Taipei county朱鴻鈞, Chu, Hung Chun Unknown Date (has links)
傳統社會中,大都存在著「男大當婚,女大當嫁」的基本價值規範,然而隨著近年來婚姻型態展現出多元複雜的風貌,有些人不再期待婚姻、不再依賴家庭,而選擇過單身生活或是延遲進入婚姻,由此造成單身人口增多的晚婚現象,此現象對於整體社會將造成何種衝擊,自是值得我們關心的課題,因此該議題值得探究。
因此,本研究旨在探討男女的單身成因、單身生活狀態、理想伴侶的條件和對於婚姻的看法。在方法上,採深入訪談法,以台北縣市軍公教之5位男性、7位女性為訪談對象。研究發現:形成單身的原因很少是單一的因素所造成,而係非常多個因素所聚合而成的結果。本研究綜合歸納這些原因為內在、外在二大因素:內在因素方面主要以「結婚對象難尋」為單身男女維持單身的主要成因;外在因素方面為「力不足以成家」,其中又以考量「經濟因素」為單身的主要成因。在12位受訪的單身男女當中,他們生活狀態,則以有交往對象或是性伴侶者的伴侶型態居多,而自願長期單身的「獨身主義者」則佔少數。
在擇偶條件方面,男性偏好「顧家」和「身體健康」的女性;女性則偏好「感覺」和「工作能力強」的男性。
在婚姻觀方面,單身男女整體的婚姻態度以抱持負面看法者居多,他們認為人生其實「不一定要結婚」,也「不會期待婚姻」、「不嚮往婚姻」。進一步分開性別來看,男性認為相處到老不容易,女性則是認為自己最為可靠;不過對於婚姻的評價,則男女均持較為正面的態度,認為「有婚姻總是好的」。
最後,依據本研究發現提出幾項建議,包括:(一)確立人生目標;(二)建立正確的兩性相處價值觀;(三)肯定自己存在的價值;(四)學習人際溝通與情感的表達;(五)尊重多元的婚姻觀念;(六)積極拓展人際關係網絡;(七)培養健全的性觀念;(八)充實精神生活的內涵。 / In traditional society, there exists more about the fundamental value norm "When the married men and women, when the marriage." But in recent years, marriage patterns show a complex multi-style, some people no longer look forward to marriage and depend on the family instead of choosing a single life or delaying their marriage. This result makes the single population increasing of later marriage. This phenomenon making what impact for the whole community is worth our caring about the subject. This subject is worthy of inquiry.
Therefore, this study was about investigating the causes of single men
and women, single life, ideal partner’condition and the views of
marriage. In the method, I adopt in-depth interviews to the Taipei city
and county of the five men and seven women who’s job are teachers,
soldiers or government workers as the interview object. Study found that:
a single reason is rarely caused by a single factor instead of many factors
polymerization from the results. The study comprehensive summed up these
reasons for the internal and external two major factors: internal factors
are mainly to " hard to find a marry person " for single man and woman
remain single. And major cause of external factors is "can not keep the
families", which consider "economic factors" as the main causes of
single.In 12 single men and women respondents, there are contacts or
sexual partners who form the majority partner, and voluntary long-term
"singles”accounted for a minority in their living conditions.
Spouse Choosing in terms of male preference is about "housekeeping"
and "health" of women; women prefer "feeling" and "strong capacity" of men.
In thinking about marriage, there are more of single men and women who hold negative views to the marriage. They think that life actually "do not necessarily have to marry" and "not looking forward to marriage," and "not long for marriage." Further separation of gender, men think that live to old age is not easy. For women, they think that they are the most reliable to themselves, but for the evaluation of the marriage, both men and women have a more positive attitude, saying that "marriage is always good."
Finally, based on this study, I made several recommendations which include: (a) establish life goals, (2) to establish the correct values of gender relations, (3) affirmed the value of their existence; (d) learn interpersonal communication and emotional expression; (5) respect for the diverse concepts of marriage, (6) Actively expand interpersonal networks; (7) develop a correct sex concept (8) enrich the connotation of spiritual life.
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台灣地區女性婚姻經驗之生命歷程變遷易漢亭, Yi, Han Ting Unknown Date (has links)
在過去社會中,女性的生命歷程中,最重要的階段就是步入婚姻之中,而照顧家庭、養兒育女就是女性最大的責任,但在社會的變遷之下,許多傳統價值規範亦不同於以往,家庭模式與婚姻型態開始有了改變。身處不同時代的台灣地區女性所經歷的生命歷程必定會有所差異,而身處同一時代中的台灣地區女性,其生命歷程也將產生異質性。
本研究藉由女性婚姻經驗實證資料做為基礎,模擬出台灣地區祖母、母親以及女兒三代女性的婚姻史。分析結果發現,隨著時代的推移,從祖母的世代到母親的世代,再到女兒的世代,台灣地區女性的初婚年齡延後許多,女性結婚的可能性也有所降低,雖然女性步入中年後初婚的可能性提高,但整體看來初婚可能性仍然偏低。而女性的離婚可能性則大體呈現上升的趨勢,但女性離婚後再婚的可能性卻是先下降然後再次上升,處於中年階段之女性離婚的可能性雖然較高,但其離婚後經歷再婚的可能性卻是下降的。這些結果顯示出從祖母到母親再到女兒的世代,台灣地區的婚姻關係意涵漸漸產生了改變,婚姻中的家庭意義與陪伴意義的比重開始出現拉扯。
透過此次的研究,發現到女性的婚姻生命歷程變遷是循序漸進的,我們深入了解了祖母、母親與女兒這三個緊密結合卻又截然不同的世代,在進行生命與生活經驗的傳承中,漸漸產生的婚姻經驗與生命歷程的差異。
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女同志親密伴侶暴力初探林佳怡, Yi, Lin Chia Unknown Date (has links)
同志繫因性傾向與社會中大多數人不同所產生的一個群體,因此並不像種族、性別等在社會中明顯可見,同志是一特殊的族群,同時社會大眾對於同志族群並不瞭解。同志伴侶因不同的性傾向,有其不同於異性戀伴侶的相處方式,但在某些部份與異性戀伴侶相處方式無任何差異。
由於本研究中六位受訪者均是遭受親密暴力的受暴者,因此研究者係採取深度訪談方式探索渠等遭受親密暴力的情境,並由受暴者的角度進行分析,主要係自受暴者特質、親密暴力類型、女同志愛情關係與親密暴力情況、受暴者對暴力情境的反應、暴力關係持續與結束的原因切入分析,後續並針對所有受訪者對家庭暴力相關防治措施的看法進行初步剖析,復以從優勢觀點分析受訪者。
本研究初步探索女同志親密暴力發現,女同志伴侶有其特殊性但也有部份相似於一般異性戀。同時回應到家庭暴力防治法將同志納入保護對象,在法律上已有看見同志與社會大眾相似的需求,但對於同志特殊性的需求並沒有瞭解,若能再加強對於同志特殊性需求的回應,家庭暴力防治法應能更有效的幫助遭受親密暴力的同志伴侶。
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當生命中多了個老來伴--中老年再婚經驗:再婚動機與婚姻調適之初探 / New companionship in later life--Remarriage in old age:motivation and adjustment陳慧倫 Unknown Date (has links)
本論文的研究目的主要探討中老年再婚者之再婚經驗,希望藉由中老年再婚者的自身經驗,來理解他們再婚的動機、促成中老年再婚決定的情境與影響因素;以及再婚後的婚姻生活調適,並從財務管理及家務分工來探討夫妻權力分化之面貌。
本研究採用質性取向的研究方法,以半結構式的深度訪談進行資料蒐,共計9名有效樣本,年齡介於53-71歲,共5名居住台北市、1名居住新竹市、另外3位則各別居於台中、彰化及雲林縣。主要研究結果如下:
(一) 中老年再婚動機有六個:(1)情感上的孤單;(2)習慣有伴;(3)對圓滿人生的期待;(4)結婚較有安全感;(5)對方需要人作伴;以及(6)生活上的需求,包含家務處理的協助、資源上經濟的共享與扶助,與未來照顧的考量。其中乃由於中老年所處生命階段的影響,子女離家及退休使得他們生活感到孤單,經濟與照顧的考量也指陳出中老年人面對退休及老化所產生威脅之故。
(二) 中老年人之所以與現任配偶開展兩人關係,乃源於三種情境:(1)第三者的促成,也就是共同友人的牽線;(2)地理空間上的接近,從鄰居關係、同是身為某醫院志工而認識;(3)參與社團,透過積極參與相關媒合的社團活動而認識彼此。可知中老年再婚關係的開展始於雙方的「共同生活圈」中,個人的社會網絡為造就婚姻關係之重要媒介。
(三) 影響中老年再婚決定的因素有五:(1)衡量彼此條件,包括兩人彼此的相似性、以及受到對方吸引;(2)前段美好婚姻的影響;(3)對方給予的寬容、承諾及支持;(4)重要他人的意見,包括配偶之成年子女、老年父母;(5)社會性因素,如他人輿論等影響。由研究發現結果得知中老年再婚者對於「彼此相似性」的重視、再婚決定受到成年子女的意見的影響,突顯出台灣社會代間關係財務移轉之文化特性。
(四) 中老年再婚者婚後生活呈現出平靜且自由的圖像,因退休與配偶共處的相處時間增多,且不與公婆同住的加持下,感受到較多的自由自在;尚未退休的中老年再婚者則期待與營造夫妻共處之時光;從受訪者之話語中可知中老年再婚者婚姻關係是較少衝突的,再婚後面臨的再婚調適議題有以下幾類:(1)與配偶飲食習慣不同;(2)空間使用習慣不同;(3)夫妻生活不同調;(4)不習慣先生個性;(5)人際層面,包括與配偶子女及父母的相處。
(五) 中老年再婚因應前述生活改變議題採取的調適策略為:(1)要求對方改變;(2)順應配偶;(3)相互配合。與年輕夫妻不同的是以較柔性、且理性的溝通方式,較少與配偶產生爭執。從財務管理及家務分工來看夫妻權力之分化,可發現中老年再婚者仍以男性為共同家用支出的主責者,女性仍為家務工作之負責人,顯示中老年再婚夫妻仍然延續成年早年兩性角色分工的權力模式。
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夫妻薪資結構對於婚姻制度信任度之影響 / The Relation of Wage Structure between Couples and Trust in the Marriage Systems李芳萱 Unknown Date (has links)
無論社會趨勢主流為何,大部分的人仍會選擇進入婚姻生活。婚姻滿意度即成為衡量幸福度之指標之一,也因如此婚姻制度信任度在婚姻生活中扮演極為重要之角色。本研究之目的為探討影響已婚者婚姻制度信任度之因素與夫妻薪資結構是否會影響其對於婚姻制度之信任度。
本研究所使用之資料是來自於「華人家庭動態資料庫」第十三年計畫資料之資料庫,從中篩選出1667位已婚者為本研究之對象,並透過Ordered probit分析影響已婚者之婚姻制度信任度之因素,研究結果顯示夫妻薪資總合、薪資差距、雙薪家庭、投資、性別、年齡、健康狀況、教育程度、孩子數、家庭生命週期、家庭生活滿意度與性別角色態度對於已婚者之婚姻制度信任度有顯著影響,且女性對於婚姻制度之信任度受薪資差距之顯著影響,而男性對於婚姻制度之信任度受薪資差距影響較不顯著。雙薪家庭者之婚姻制度信任度受薪資差距顯著影響。
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大陸配偶面談機制改善之研究 / On the Improvement of Mainland-Spouses-Interview mochanism姚綺蘭 Unknown Date (has links)
各國移民政策基於政治、經濟情勢及社會安全之考量皆訂定許多管制措施,我國亦不例外,為防杜大陸人士利用虛偽婚姻入台,2003年9月1日起實施大陸配偶面談機制,此機制是我國對大陸配偶諸多管制項目之一,其為維護國境移入安全的第一道重要關卡。實施以來,如何在人權與國權兩相競合間取得平衡,一直是政府、民意機關、民間團體、學者專家及利害關係當事人共同關切之重要議題。因此,本文以大陸配偶來台面談機制為探討主軸,秉持戴明理論「持續不斷改善」之核心價值,希冀經由文獻及訪談資料之歸納,對此機制未來目標有所助益。本文論述重點如下:
壹、研究內涵
一、面談機制運作概況及缺失
二、面談權益之宣導
三、面談品質之改善
四、面談處分之行政救濟
五、面談輔助機制
六、面談正面效益與負面效應
貳、未來目標
一、符合國際人權公約之內涵
二、建立面談機制輔助方案
三、實施境外面談
四、簡化面談流程
伍、重視公民參與
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中華民國移民政策之研究葉育碩 Unknown Date (has links)
中國人民自明末清初,開始大量的移民海外。就時間序列來說,先後有漳泉後有客家移民、國民政府播牽來台等,臺灣人口有移出,也有人口移入。最近十餘年來,則有大量的外籍及大陸移民經由婚姻移民大量移入臺灣。但卻一直沒有明確的移民政策,當然就沒有完整的移民法。跨國移民或婚姻移民,是中華民國近年來極為重要的一個社會現象。就移入者的結構與性質、移民的權責機關及法令規定來說明,政府的政策上希望導向的高科技或投資移民,政策及法令上有無開放,因此,儘速擬定完善的移民政策與移民法,是刻不容緩的。政府雖見於移民問題的複雜化與嚴重性,所草擬「外籍與大陸配偶照顧輔導措施」,及「中華民國移民政策綱領」,並積極修正「入出國及移民法」,希望藉此解決我國的移民所衍生的問題。但對移民的接納、安置、輔導、教育、監控外來移民,甚至移民的犯罪、社會治安甚至國家安全等問題究竟如何,正是最急迫需要探討的。政府遲未研擬訂完整的移民政策及相關配套措施,亦無一套針對管理或融合外籍人士的政策,甚至缺乏統合協調之機制,如何成立一個「專責移民機構」,在兼顧保護移民權益及國家安全的專責機關,並參考其他先進國家之移民政策與相關問題之解決方式,以吸引與留住更多人才,並協助移入者迅速融入我國社會,提昇國家競爭力,無疑是我國當務之急 。
本論文共分五章,茲將其內容分述如下:
一、第一章為導論,主要說明本文的研究動機與目的,相關文獻探討、研究範圍與限制、研究方法與論文架構等。
二、第二章探討國際移民的趨勢及政策,先以國際移民的發展與趨勢說明接納移民對國際社會的意義,進而對移入國的影響,並探討世界主要國家接納移民之政策之探討。
三、第三章探討中華民國移民接納政策之沿革,首先以臺灣人口移入的歷史回顧,進而討論移民政策之權責機關及相關法規、移民種類與配額至移民歸化,並最後討論移民之發展數量、原因及重要性。
四、第四章對移民及其衍生問題之探討,先以移民與非傳統安全威脅,討論婚姻移民權益(或歧視)問題、大陸及外籍配偶移入管理規範及移入配偶輔導與教育之探討,最後則討論移民專責機構之成立。
五、第五章結論探討中華民國有無符合國際潮流及國內需求之移民政策,並提出研究發現與建議,以提供政府於修訂移民政策之建議。
關鍵詞:移民政策、國際移民、接納移民、婚姻移民
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婚外情事件與婚姻品質、心理調適之研究- 以丈夫外遇為例 / A Research on Married Men’s Extramarital Affairs, Marriage Qualities, and Psychological Adjustments.江程碧鴻 Unknown Date (has links)
對家庭婚姻而言,外遇既不是夫妻雙方所能預期,更難以預防,事件發生了,除讓彼此有機會去檢視婚姻中發生的問題!任何一方外遇,對另一半的配偶總會造成傷害。而我國傳統社會文化對妻子的期待,偏重於「家庭」的成就,或稱有責任感,因為社會對妻子的肯定,是來自於其家庭的幸福、丈夫的成就,而較少妻子自我的表現,一旦又有了子女,更會因母職而常受制於家庭、婚姻,所以當丈夫外遇時,顯然妻子會遭遇許多心理、社會衝突與困境。因此,妻子面對丈夫外遇之心路歷程及生活調適所面臨的婚姻品質與家庭壓力情形,為值得探究的課題。
本研究採用質性研究法中的深入訪談法,選取的對象為30到50歲的已婚女性,並盡量尋求彼此差異質性較大之受訪者,共邀請12位丈夫外遇之已婚女性參與訪談,著重蒐集資訊的豐富內涵與深度,以探討妻子面對丈夫外遇時婚姻關係、困境與衝突,以期深入了解妻子所面臨的問題,並探究其心理調適、走出悲傷及面對人生的歷程。訪談資料經歸類、分析,所得研究結果如下:
一、為保婚姻,妻子處境艱辛:因為妻子比較重視婚姻關係,且在父權婚姻處於相對的弱勢,所以才會在丈夫外遇後產生許多困境。
二、單方付出,丈夫依然故我:妻子甘之如飴在婚姻中不斷地為丈夫付出,為家庭犧牲,而卻没有關照自己。
三、付出較多,妻子婚姻弱勢:儘管妻子擁有工作、經濟獨立,但她們在心理上、情緒上都比較依賴丈夫,所以就容易使自己在婚姻關係中,屈從丈夫、處於次等地位。
四、價值內化,妻子以夫為貴:原生家庭父母親的教養,讓妻子甘心當個以夫為貴、為家庭犧牲奉獻的小女人。
五、妻子自責,承擔一切後果:妻子為了維繫關係、挽回丈夫,除了自責之外,也不敢找人傾訴,深怕事情公開,與丈夫關係無法回復,只能自己默默承受一切。
六、浴火重生,重整生活方式:當妻子發現已經無法挽回丈夫時,為了早日解脫,重整生活,讓自己有個新的未來,就是此時期妻子浴火重生的關鍵。
七、心灰意冷,轉而愛護自己:當妻子對丈夫心灰意冷、對夫妻關係澈底絶望時,她才會開始闗照自己的需要。
八、尋求幫助,提供情緒支持:妻子的社會支持主要來自朋友、家人與團體,也因為獲得這些社會支持,才有辦法度過危機,朝向更積極的人生邁進。
另根據本研究發現做以下建議:
一、人生苦短,妻宜慎思。
二、原諒丈夫,放過自己。
三、正面思考,快樂生活。
四、延續性愛,維持親密。
五、放眼未來,謊言勿聽。
六、善用資源,勇於求助。
七、健全家庭,培育孩子。
八、丈夫收心,體恤妻子。 / The growing trend of extramarital affair is becoming a world-wide phenomenon. When an extramarital affair occurs, the impact can be felt not just by the spouses, but also their children, workplace as well as their social circles. The tradition that women should play their role in the family still exists in current society, thus it is often viewed as a natural duty of women to bear children and take full responsibilities to raise the family. This trend would give the wife a sense of security; however, it strengthens women's dependence on men and weakens their sense of self-determination. In a case where the husband is having an extramarital affair, the wife often encounters a great deal of emotional and financial dilemmas in deciding what is in her best interests to do, especially if there are children involved.
This study adopts in-depth interview on 12 married women between 30~50 years old whose husbands have been indulged in extramarital affairs. The main purpose of this study is to investigate the marital relationships, the dilemmas, and the emotional conflicts these women experienced in responding to extramarital affairs. The results of this study are summarized as follows:
I. In traditional Chinese families where family structure is hierarchical, the husband generally has more authorities over the wife, which creates a variety of issues for the wife when the husband is having an extramarital affair.
II. Many wives would sacrifice themselves by giving up their pursuit of careers for the good of their families. These women may find themselves later faced with the difficult task of trying to begin or revive their lives
III. Although many wives have full time jobs and are financially independent, they are still emotionally dependent on their husbands.
VI. Influenced by traditional views, many wives would simply concentrate on taking care of their husbands and children and placing their hope fully on their husbands.
V. In a case where the husband has an extramarital affair, the wife would question her own competence as a wife and force herself to keep the matter undisclosed to save her husband’s reputation and for the fear that her intolerance would threaten their marriage.
VI. When the wife feels deeply disappointed about her marriage, she would start to realize her true values and fulfill her needs.
VII. When the wife discovers that her marriage can not be saved, she would replace herself in the priority.
VIII. Wives who suffered from extramarital affairs should seek help from other people. Proper psychological consultancy can serve as an effective way towards good mental health.
Suggestions:
I. It is important for the wife to understand that she is not alone and she is still a valuable person even though this has happened to her.
II. The wife should learn through time to forgive the husband and do what is best for the family.
III. The wife should learn how to deal with the resentments caused by extramarital affair and replace the negative thinking with positive affirmations
IV. Intimacy is one of the most essential forces that binds the spouses together. Both spouses should understand that making love is as important as love itself.
V. Both spouses should understand that divorce is not the only solution for extramarital affairs. The wife should take into consideration to rework on the marriage and save it for a better tomorrow.
VI. The wife should seek a counselor for psychological and emotional assistance. Once the trouble spots in the relationship are found, both can begin to take actions and try to resolve the issues.
VII. Both spouses need to understand that their children need both parents to develop at various stages of their lives.
VIII. The husband should stop seeing the lover and understand that affection and companionship may be some of the most important emotional supports the wife needs to recover from his affair.
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母親教養行為對青少年子女學業成就的影響:婚姻衝突的效果李芊蒂, Lee, Chien-Ti Unknown Date (has links)
本研究以長期的婚姻衝突程度為家庭脈絡的指標,討論母親的教養行為的影響力對於青少年子女學業成就的發展是如何受到不同的家庭內部互動的脈絡所影響。利用「結構方成模型」(SEM)的統計方法,分析中央研究院社會所提供的「青少年藥物濫用之起因:一個社會學習模型」貫時性資料,研究結果顯示在不同婚姻衝突程度的家庭中,母親的教養行為對於青少年子女的學業成就有不一致的影響力,再經由模型比較,進一步發現在高婚姻衝突程度家庭中,母親「理性約束」教養的正向影響力較低婚姻衝突的家庭更為深厚。此外,本研究也檢證了母親教養行為是否對於不同性別的子女具有不一致的影響力,比較的結果顯示母親教養行為對男女生的影響力並不具有顯著差異。
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